Thanks Dad
I've seen Mr. Rohn speak. Always a pleasure and a bunch of great stuff to be learned from him.
I LOVE THESE SHORT AND SIMPLE MESSAGES
Some wisdom from J. Rohn
My first mentor, Mr. Shoaff, over a five-year period of time when I was age 25 to 31, taught me some extraordinarily simple things, before his untimely passing at age 49. He only went through the 9th grade in school. He never finished high school, never went to college, never went to a university. So he put his experiences and ideas in very simple language, which, I think for me—a kid from the farms of Idaho—was so important.
When I would say, “This is all the company pays,” Mr. Shoaff would say, “No, that is all they pay you.” I thought, “That is a new way to look at it.” I told him things cost too much. But he said, “No, you can’t afford them.” Well, that was a new concept for me. He promised that if I would improve, then I would qualify for more money. So I learned that we don’t have to work on the company, we have to work on ourselves. Now if it had been technical, I would have missed it. If it had been mystic, I would have backed away. But it was just basic, blunt “a-b-c” stuff that I hadn’t thought of before. For me it was the beginning of what he called “personal development.”
Mr. Shoaff also taught me that life puts some of the more valuable things on the high shelf so that you can’t get to them until you qualify. If you want the things on the high shelf, you must stand on the books you read. With every book you read, you get to stand a little higher.
And the “biggie” that forever had an impact on me: “Success is something you attract by the person you become.” That phrase changed my life. Success is not to be pursued, but to be attracted by the person you become. Put your energy into becoming a better you, the best you. Learn the skills. Practice the skills. Attract the success.
Good advice. But as for this?
ReplyDeletePut your energy into becoming a better you, the best you.
Too late. I'm as good as I'm gonna get. Well, check that... I WAS as good as I was gonna get. Lately it's ALL downhill. ;-)
Outstanding advice! I was taught these same lessons by many of my mentors over the years.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing!
Great stuff, Deb. I've had some great teachers and mentors over the years too. The lessons they taught me that have stayed with me were always the simple, direct ones.
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ReplyDeleteNot as good as you once were, but as good once ayou ever were?
Rude1
I guess my Dady raised me up right. I took the jist of it to be to basically mean "There ain't nobody gonna look after you but yerself, so get after it and get it done."
Dan
The simple, direct ones are the best. There have been quite a few that I've learned over the years.
Deb, this reminds me of the motivational phrase..."If it's to be, it's up to me!"
ReplyDeleteIt sure got me out of bed many a morning.
Not as good as you once were, but as good once as you ever were?
ReplyDeleteEven that is debatable.
It can't possibly be all that bad Buck.
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